Where do I want to be?

It feels like an easy question - but sometimes it isn’t.

In life - where do you want to be? What does your ideal life look like? Take a breath, a moment to think about this. Where do you want to be in life? What will that life look like?

I asked my husband this question last weekend, and he said he was where he wanted to be, give or take a few tweaks. So we looked at what those tweaks were, and we talked about how we would get there.

And, that’s as simple as it gets. In my Facebook group this week I have been running a free mini course which included how to get to where you want to be. In business world it’s called strategic planning. In my world, it’s called getting to where you want to be.

But to do that you need to know where you want to be, and where you are now. And then, somewhere between those two is your plan of HOW.

We live in a masculine world of HOW, the feminine is WHY - if you can start with your WHY then you are more likely to do the HOW.

Have you ever had an argument with a member of the opposite sex that went like this:

Woman - wanting to explain everything to the man, wanting the man to listen fully to the process.
Man - wanting to jump to fixing the issue as easily and quickly as possible.

That’s the WHY vs the HOW.

So when finding where you want to go, write out the WHY - that will help you get to the place you want to go. Then write a step by step plan of the HOW.

Pretty short and sweet this week, but really important in life if you (like me) want to grow and progress.

Have a good one!

L xx